12 essential Qualities a good Husband must have

After a girl’s marriage her husband becomes not only his life partner, but also her best friend. He is the first one whom she addresses for any joys or sorrows.

Every girl dreams of her prince charming, the perfect guy for her who will take her into her magical dream world full of love. She wants him to be the best for her. Of course, no single  guy is perfect or possesses all the qualities a girl dreams about, but trying a bit to incorporate a few good qualities goes a long way and make your relationship better and your life happier. And pleasing a girl is not as difficult as all you guys think. All they care for is a little attention, love and care. For all you girls out there who are in search for a husband and all you husbands trying to please their wife, I present you “Top 12 Qualities a good Husband must have” list. This list will surely help you to woo your beautiful wife or that pretty girlfriend of yours.

1 Pampers you.

We girls love being pampered like little kids. And a guy who pampers his girl every now and then can never go wrong with the relationship. Pampering makes girls happy. If your guy pampers you, it means your happiness is all he cares about. Pampering does not only include buying gifts. It can be small little gestures like writing a love note, getting a rose, surprising your wife with cupcakes, singing a song for her, dancing on her favorite song with her, cute text messages, making bed tea for her or anything else that will get a smile on your girls face. Trust me, these small little gestures tell us girls how thoughtful you guys are and make us fall in love all over again.

2 Good sense of humor 

If your husband takes out time to accompany you to do your hobbies, then you may be the luckiest girl in the world. Not only hobbies, going out with you for everyday work such as grocery shopping, or just going for a jog with you could be done too. These little things mean a lot for all the girls as it implies you want to spend most of the time with her and want be with her what so ever the case may be. Volunteering in doing things with her gives her a sense of belonging.

3. Loves kids.

 Who doesn’t love kids? All we girls do. But the case is not the same with guys. All guys do not love kids. According to me, a guy playing with little kids is the sexiest thing ever. Wink, wink! At some point of time, you would surely want a family. And a guy who loves kids always makes a good father. He may not show his love to kids like you do. Girls do all the cheek pulling, talking in a squeaky voice and calling cute names to kids, guys generally do not do that. But that doesn’t mean he can’t make a good father. Look for signs how he reacts around kids playing. Does he get irritated and shout often at kids? If not, you don’t need to worry girls; he surely possesses a soft corner for kids.

4. Supportive

A good husband is a one who supports you through your good and bad. He should listen to you and guide you to the right path and support your decision. Be it your career move or any other personal or professional decision, he should support you. And mind it, if he doesn’t always support you, doesn’t mean he is not supportive. It means he does not think you are on the right path and wants to be a good counselor to you. 

5. Dependable

One of the many qualities all the husbands must possess is being dependable. Your girl should be able to depend on you for any work she asks for help with. She must be sure you won’t disappoint her. The thing may be as little as grocery shopping or even a big event as planning a party altogether. If your girl can depend on you for each and everything, you are going perfectly right in your relationship.

6. Makes you a better person.

Relationships are about learning from each other. If you improve as a person and become a better person as you spend time with him, he is the right guy for you. It does not mean you change all together as a person, it means improving little everyday habits like eating your meals on time, becoming punctual or any other good habits you can grab from your spouse. After all, your life is meant to improve not worsen day by day.